Being Human

The ontological work offers new ways of interpreting old concerns. Since my introduction to this work in 1994, I have been developing a set of coherent ideas about the human condition and our becoming.  I offer these short articles as a means of inviting you to think about how they might help you explore similar issues in your life.

Constructive Shift
Can You Make The Constructive Shift?
“Coaching is more concerned with blindness than with ignorance”  … Julio Olalla, Master Coach You may find this rather strange coming from a coach, but in the past I have struggled...
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Being-Authentic
Being Authentic
“Even the fear of death is nothing compared to the fear of not having lived authentically and fully.” … Frances Moore Lappe, O Magazine, May 2004 The idea of living or acting authentically...
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A Crisis of Meaning
“Hope is a feeling that life and work have meaning. You either have it or you don’t, regardless of the state of the world that surrounds you.”  … Vaclav Havel (1936...
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Feeling-Successful
Feeling Successful
“One important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.” … Arthur Ashe (1943 – 1993) US tennis player Here is a question for...
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Living in a Perfect World
Today, we seem to be constantly bombarded with a subtle but clear message that the world and the people in it should perfect. There should be no wars, people should not die in car accidents,...
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resentment
Resentment and Acceptance
Resentment is one of the most prevalent moods that I have encountered in my work as a coach. The impact of this mood cannot be understated. It has a major damaging effect on someone’s outlook...
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The Pale Blue Dot
The Voyager 1 spacecraft left Earth on the 5th September 1977 and since then it has visited the outermost planets of our solar system and continues to this day to fly into the unknown. In 1980...
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Stillness
The Art of Stillness
“This is the ageOf the half-read page.And the quick hashAnd the mad dash.The bright nightWith the nerves tight.The plane hopWith the brief stop.The lamp tanIn a short span.The Big ShotIn...
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Transaction or Transformation
“Some painters transform the sun into a yellow spot, others transform a yellow spot into the sun.” … Pablo Picasso (1881-1973) Spanish painter and sculptor The term ‘coaching’...
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An Assumption About Learning
“If we all worked on the assumption that what is accepted as true is really true, there would be little hope of advance.” … Orville Wright (1871 – 1948) US inventor and aviation pioneer In...
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Gratitude
“Gratitude is the fairest blossom which springs from the soul.”  … Ward Beecher (1813 – 1887) US clergyman & abolitionist  One of the major narratives...
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Can We Be Objective?
“Show me a man who claims he is objective and I’ll show you a man with illusions.” …Henry R. Luce (1898 – 1967) US Editor and Publisher  I hear the phrase...
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Uniqueness
Unique Observers
”The source of genius is imagination alone, . . . the refinement of the senses that sees what others do not see, or sees them differently.”  … Eugene Delacroix (1798-1863) French...
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